Correct me if I am wrong, maybe things have progressed in the last few years that I haven't kept up with, but carbide coating would be ON TOP of the surface of the existing metal. This has always existed as an option, we had a little hand held gadget for doing this even when I served my apprenticeship. It was then very time consuming, as each application covered an area maybe 1/16" diameter. I would compare this more to like a hard chrome plating type of thing, where you are ADDING to the existing metal. Nitriding, I believe, is a process where they don't add to or remove metal, but change the characteristics of the outer skin of the existing metal. I am not sure it is fair to compare the two processes.
Also, I know for a fact I wouldn't want a broken off piece of carbide making it's way around my transmission