had the same issue, jacking up works

Yeah, you'll likely need to jack it up or use an engine hoist to get things in place. That mount can be quite annoying to get installed when all the other mounts are installed and everything is in place. One thing that helps is to keep the two nuts holding the crossmember to the frame under the rad support loose so you have a little more wiggle room, just make sure you leave them threaded at least a little bit though so you can easily get things tightened up afterwards.

It's in. On a scale of 1 to 10, this job was a miserable -1.

make sure your mounts an brackets all match, front and back there are numbers on them.

I beleive automatic, and manual are different, fwd and awd, and 90, 91+

I went through something similar.

Should be gooder now. Car vibrates a bit more, but motor doesn't move at all.

If I recall correctly, Auto mounts wont line up what so ever. I know the bracket came off my car originally, and the new roll stop is for a manual. I don't know if my car being a 90 would have those different. I briefly compared it to the old one that I had and they appeared to be the same.

No they won't and neither will fwd ones.