Update: I took the FA out sent it to my tranny guy. He pulled it apart and said he didnt see anything that would cause those symptoms. He did not check my solonoids. I will do that when I put the tranny back into the car.

hey Tim
I sent your guy an email... he never replied.

hey Amin
some of the connectors are different and also the KM has more wires than the FA. The only TCU I have is the one that came with the car for the FA. So I cant use the KM.

hey Ghislain
I will look into the wire being crossed. I never thought of that.
I had my scan tool connected while driving it and it seemed to be shifting gears. However, my tranny guy was saying eventhough the scan tool shows the gears being changed... may only be a request and not the actual gears changing.

Thank you guys for your suggestions/experience/knowledge/great help!