I have never used a Fidanza flywheel but I'm pretty sure you're fine with OEM flywheel bolts torqued to spec. Maybe somebody else running one can chime in.

I know some guys will put a shim plate to protect the aluminum, but if you really think you're going to wear out your flywheel by scoring the surface with the mounting bolts, you should probably figure out why you're having to take your flywheel off so frequently.....