With engine cranking you should have power on pin2
Pin 3 should have constant power
Pin 7 is the ground control for the relay from the ECU
From the back side of the connector with the release tap facing up. Pin 1 is at the top left 12345
678910 is the order of wires. That doesnt post right the top row is 1-5 and the bottom is 6-10.

Assuming its a 2.0 na